English Talk

[maral55]

hi

!i hope we cauld help each other to improve our english
my english is very weak
!sorry if i have bad spelling or wrong grammer in my sentences
......well
i tried to read most of the posts in this topic
but it was so much that i didn't have time to finish it
so maybe the subject i chose is token before
!so tell me about that
!in the world (موقعیت) what do you think about iranians
!what shoud we do as an iranian to make our country better
........​

thank a lot

!for you'r good forum​

welcome here my dear
so happy to have you here specially when no one likes this English talks!!
still im unhappy and wonder why in this educated forum we have only few people who attend English talk
by the way
it doesnt matter how your english is as you see mine is so bad too!
but i appreicate your attending
about the topic you suggest im agree
i suggest you to start and i continue it then
i think you can use place instead of that word
but sara knows better​

 

[M.Deylamian]

no matter dear maral !!

no matter dear maral !!

Hi dear friends it would be pleasure for me to cooparte in your disscutions. however it has been such a long time that I haven’t spoken in English !
so lots of mistake would happen in my grammer also spelling, accept my applogize for that it’s a good chance to improve my English becide my dear
friends that I know there are lots of thing that I would learn from them ..my dear maral no matter if there is not so much people here to party with our disscution .its up to us and the topic of our disscution .

best wishes​

 

[elahe_2323]

welcome to all newcomer
these are the statements of minister in our country that I read some days ago in newspaper

MINISTER OF COUNTRY;temporary marriage (siqheh)should be promoted venturingly
and then he said
Is it possible that Eslam be inattentive in relation to youngs(15 years old)who GOD create lust in them?​

whats your opinoion about this statement?do u agree with temporarey marriage or not?

 

[honest424]

hi
i love to learn english like you and i think one of the best way to learning is writing becauce its help us to improve dictation and word..
my english is not good like you but i will be glad if u help me .
goodluck​

 

[maral55]

hi

i love to learn english like you and i think one of the best way to learning is writing becauce its help us to improve dictation and word..
my english is not good like you but i will be glad if u help me .

goodluck​

welcome my derest
im glad you found this topic usefull for improving english skills
we'll be glad if you share your ideas with us about the subjects
thanks
best wishes​

 

[maral55]

Hi dear friends it would be pleasure for me to cooparte in your disscutions. however it has been such a long time that I haven’t spoken in English !

so lots of mistake would happen in my grammer also spelling, accept my applogize for that it’s a good chance to improve my English becide my dear
friends that I know there are lots of thing that I would learn from them ..my dear maral no matter if there is not so much people here to party with our disscution .its up to us and the topic of our disscution .​

best wishes​

wow such an honur to have you here dear manda
besides you say you havent spoken english for so long but still you english is much better than mine!
and since i have such good firnds like you and others i believe we can do such great works here
by the way every topic that you friends suggest im agree to continue​

 

[maral55]

welcome to all newcomer​

these are the statements of minister in our country that I read some days ago in newspaper​

MINISTER OF COUNTRY;temporary marriage (siqheh)should be promoted venturingly
and then he said
Is it possible that Eslam be inattentive in relation to youngs(15 years old)who GOD create lust in them?​

whats your opinoion about this statement?do u agree with temporarey marriage or not?

dear elahe
such a good topic to discuse
well personaly i think its flase maybe with these rules that exists its compelety wrong becuase women have no right in this relationship even if they become pregnant or other things like this and acually it decreases the woth of a woman
and a man can get many temporary wifes
and with no doubt it increase the amount of spiol and decay in the society​

 

[M.Deylamian]

(?tempreroy marriage( good or bad

(?tempreroy marriage( good or bad

Hi dear friends​

That’s kind of you dear maral.i wish the best for you and the others. ​

Well the subject is about temporary marriage.​

I think the situation of our society is not prepared for such a these laws .because we believe in isllam beside want to act as the countries that have freedom in relations.and a question here is that are we a real muslim ??​

unfortunatly there are few poeple that obey the term of this law and the other will increase corruption in the society ,so far as the amount of girl and women that become the victim of aggression would increase awfully .but The good point is, somehow it could help to decrease the mount of divorcement in society because it would give a chance to the couple to become more famillier with each other befor marriage. But still the negative aspects are much more than the positive. In my idea there must be some extra lessons and studies about these for students(espesialy girls) in schools , the ranges that are in the most danger.. !! ​

 

[maral55]

Hi dear friends​

That’s kind of you dear maral.i wish the best for you and the others.


Well the subject is about temporary marriage.


I think the situation of our society is not prepared for such a these laws .because we believe in isllam beside want to act as the countries that have freedom in relations.and a question here is that are we a real muslim ??

unfortunatly there are few poeple that obey the term of this law and the other will increase corruption in the society ,so far as the amount of girl and women that become the victim of aggression would increase awfully .but The good point is, somehow it could help to decrease the mount of divorcement in society because it would give a chance to the couple to become more famillier with each other befor marriage. But still the negative aspects are much more than the positive. In my idea there must be some extra lessons and studies about these for students(espesialy girls) in schools , the ranges that are in the most danger.. !! ​

dear Manda
but why they should marry each other in order to be famillier ?
why counldnt they simply be friends
im not agree with you about the decrease of divorcments even i think the divorcment may be incrase because specially men could achive things they want very simply and with no limitation and they dont have to get the responsibillty of marraige​

 

[elahe_2323]

in my opinion for accepting temporary marriage we should ignore many of our values such as our culture and religion,the culture which belong to iran and moreover this program is an insultatioon to place and dignity of women
i beleive that temporary marriage destroy the base of family becaues sensual men find a legal way to reach theire goal so not only it doesnt help to decrease the statistic of divorce,but also its become one of the main reason for divorcing and may be lead to creat number of children who their fame is not obvious
at last i think we just express illegal relationship in other way in order to relieve our conscience​

 

[M.Deylamian]

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hi my freinds ​

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I agree that It would be easy way for men to reach their goal legaly and in this way the divorces will increase and the families would be scatterd.​

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But in my opinion there must be a period befor marriage to make people more familier with each other.and it would help there, so because of that I said, it some how could be positive and I think being friends has got different meaning of thinking in marraige .I still believe that it will increase the coorption .​

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from now on the mens that had hidden their relation from their wifes, (their family) will find it unrestrainedly and do this under the protection of Islamic custom so the women won't have rights to say anything or defend themselves.I don’t want to act like feminists but a question here: is there any law that take the part of women in such a these situations ??​

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[elahe_2323]

in my opinion there should be a period before marriage,in orther that girls and boys can recognize each other and they should can come and go without any restriction ,i mean their family should be informed from their relationship.i believe that this period must be diffrent from period of friendship , because they must take into consideration and assess each other as partner not as a friend
but unfortunetly as yet,there are many families in our country who want to maintain their old cultures and they want to think and decide traditionally because they believe that if two person be engaged,must be marry with each other whether they be matched pairs or not.​

as is well known the most important things for them is the words of people not the happiness of their children

 

[maral55]

engagment is diffrent from temporary marraige
acually the meaning of temporary marraige is that to have relation in that period but i dont think it should be neccesry for a man and wemon to have relations and then if they dont want to get married for ever they undoubtly have problems​

 

[M.Deylamian]

Dear elahe​

I totally agree with you that our traditional custom and the way people behave
make this sound as the worth thing that two people could do ,​

and I agree with Dear maral​

that most of the couple that accepted temperory marriage (befor the time of their marriage) would forget the terms i.e the limitations that it has, although it make people to be more familier,it is not the reason for having incontrollable relation , so they let the thing happenning without thinking about their futer​

 

[maral55]

Sara where are you my dear?
dont you ever like this topic?​

 

[sara_hyperactive]

welcome to all newcomer

these are the statements of minister in our country that I read some days ago in newspaper​

MINISTER OF COUNTRY;temporary marriage (siqheh)should be promoted venturingly
and then he said
Is it possible that Eslam be inattentive in relation to youngs(15 years old)who GOD create lust in them?​

whats your opinoion about this statement?do u agree with temporarey marriage or not?

temporary marriage ….
umm… i’ll say my own idea about temporary marriage in my next post. but now i want to talk about this statement. u know it’s ridiculous. what do u think about this politic. yeah POLITIC. you know today no one can marry except people who have a rich daddy. it’s fantastic that even ONE person from the middle class of the society can’t marry because the price of buying( or no just hiring) a house can be collected in the age of 60. so a young boy about 23 for guaranteeing his lady’s life and future has just two way and that’s waiting or bank robbery! for just paying for simple needs of the day he should have a great job with a high payment( which is not possible in iran). no lover girl can marry with a poor boy who doesn’t have a house, a job, and a good saving in his bank. so what happen for their sexual needs or their emotional needs? ooh, they can have temporary marriage!!! the minister of country said it. because the government doesn’t accept any responsibility about youth. because government can’t stop thinking about his pocket full of money. because when every thing is expensive they have a better life and the only thing they can do for the young people in iran is encouraging them to have temporary marriage. so it’s a good politic because the youth shout their mouth and don’t complain as their needs are granted. because they are young and they don’t think about their future just present is important. i don’t know why some people defend iran and it’s government while nothing is in it’s own place. i’m sorry for myself and others….​

 

[sara_hyperactive]

ok if I’m not so late, I go through the main topic. it’s about temporary marriage. I think it’s not good because it develops many bad habits among people. after some years nothing remain except a weak base of family for a limited number of people. in this way, sensual boy( as many of them are like this) can have whatever they want. even they have variety in it. they don’t have to bear a girl as a wife forever. they can change it with a better one! the same for sensual girls are true too. after a while people don’t take any responsibility and they can do whatever they want. although boys don’t loose anything, girls loose many things here. and what happens for their future??? God
knows.

and about the relationship before marriage for knowing each other better , I agree with dear maral and elahe. the meaning of this relationship( which we can call engagement or friendship) is totally different with temporary marriage. is there anyone here who think or just imagine that after a temporary marriage and being granted every needs which a boy has, he marry the same girl????!!!! I appreciate relationships like friendship or engagement before marriage because that’s absolutely necessary and it can guarantee their both future to some extant.
but this kind of marriage destroy many things in the society.​

 

[sara_hyperactive]

Sara where are you my dear?


dont you ever like this topic?​

my dearest , maral
i like whatever u and other choose for discussing here. but because of limitations in time i just came here and read others' post and enjoy it. i waited for a good time to come here and share my idea about the topic.
by the way, you are a very nice member here and your english was very good before but now it is very very much better than those time. by practicing here and anywhere we can help our english improve faster and learn it more efficiently.​

 

[maral55]

temporary marriage ….​

umm… i’ll say my own idea about temporary marriage in my next post. but now i want to talk about this statement. u know it’s ridiculous. what do u think about this politic. yeah POLITIC. you know today no one can marry except people who have a rich daddy. it’s fantastic that even ONE person from the middle class of the society can’t marry because the price of buying( or no just hiring) a house can be collected in the age of 60. so a young boy about 23 for guaranteeing his lady’s life and future has just two way and that’s waiting or bank robbery! for just paying for simple needs of the day he should have a great job with a high payment( which is not possible in iran). no lover girl can marry with a poor boy who doesn’t have a house, a job, and a good saving in his bank. so what happen for their sexual needs or their emotional needs? ooh, they can have temporary marriage!!! the minister of country said it. because the government doesn’t accept any responsibility about youth. because government can’t stop thinking about his pocket full of money. because when every thing is expensive they have a better life and the only thing they can do for the young people in iran is encouraging them to have temporary marriage. so it’s a good politic because the youth shout their mouth and don’t complain as their needs are granted. because they are young and they don’t think about their future just present is important. i don’t know why some people defend iran and it’s government while nothing is in it’s own place. i’m sorry for myself and others….​

woww what a fantastic returning my dear sara!!
you know that im always agree with your logical and resonable ideas but i hope for our sake that Admin wont read this part or we all are in trouble!​

 

[maral55]

ok if I’m not so late, I go through the main topic. it’s about temporary marriage. I think it’s not good because it develops many bad habits among people. after some years nothing remain except a weak base of family for a limited number of people. in this way, sensual boy( as many of them are like this) can have whatever they want. even they have variety in it. they don’t have to bear a girl as a wife forever. they can change it with a better one! the same for sensual girls are true too. after a while people don’t take any responsibility and they can do whatever they want. although boys don’t loose anything, girls loose many things here. and what happens for their future??? God

knows.​

and about the relationship before marriage for knowing each other better , I agree with dear maral and elahe. the meaning of this relationship( which we can call engagement or friendship) is totally different with temporary marriage. is there anyone here who think or just imagine that after a temporary marriage and being granted every needs which a boy has, he marry the same girl????!!!! I appreciate relationships like friendship or engagement before marriage because that’s absolutely necessary and it can guarantee their both future to some extant.

but this kind of marriage destroy many things in the society.​

i think mostly religious people believe in this type of marraige and recommand it before the main marraige so that in the period of engagement if they walk with each other or or if they go for buying dress they be right from Islams view!!​

 

[maral55]

my dearest , maral

i like whatever u and other choose for discussing here. but because of limitations in time i just came here and read others' post and enjoy it. i waited for a good time to come here and share my idea about the topic.

by the way, you are a very nice member here and your english was very good before but now it is very very much better than those time. by practicing here and anywhere we can help our english improve faster and learn it more efficiently.​

you 'r very kind my dear
i hope someday at last i can be able to speak English correctly!​

 

[amir ali]

...joke or

...joke or

man ask god :why did you make woman so beautiful ?
God says :so you can love her .
man ask god again :why did you make her so stupid ?
God says :so she can love you ,too

 

[amir ali]

Hello

Hello

When the night comes, look at the sky. If you see a falling star, don't wonder why, just make a wish. Trust me, it will come true, 'cause I did it and I found you​

 

[maral55]

man ask god :why did you make woman so beautiful ?
God says :so you can love her .
man ask god again :why did you make her so stupid ?
God says :so she can love you ,too

whats does that mean​

 

[sara_hyperactive]

dear maral,
don't worry , if admin come here i will be in trouble (like always). i don't let anybody hurt u.l

amir ali, we have 2 other parts with name of "joke" and "beutiful sentences" in which u can send these posts . here we just discuss about a specific topic.

dear maral, again don't worry. it's meaning is not bad. it means that we, girls, should be stupid if we fell in love with a boy because they don't deserve it ( just kidding . it was the answer of taht joke . just this)l​

 

[Admin]

woww what a fantastic returning my dear sara!!
you know that im always agree with your logical and resonable ideas but i hope for our sake that Admin wont read this part or we all are in trouble!​

No, you are not!1
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[maral55]

dear maral,

don't worry , if admin come here i will be in trouble (like always). i don't let anybody hurt u.l​

amir ali, we have 2 other parts with name of "joke" and "beutiful sentences" in which u can send these posts . here we just discuss about a specific topic.​

dear maral, again don't worry. it's meaning is not bad. it means that we, girls, should be stupid if we fell in love with a boy because they don't deserve it ( just kidding . it was the answer of taht joke . just this)l​

thanks dear sara
if its like this then i think its such a good sentence i should remember it!!​

 

[maral55]

No, you are not!1​

Dear Admin
I wonder how are you able to read all of the topics and be everywhere
Everytime that i call you, you are immeditely there
​

 

[elahe_2323]

hi dear Maral.how are u?
at firest,I must appreciate u because u follow up every subject carefully
I agree with you and I know that in order to achieving some valuable things
we should lose sth else but I think that, people when desire to achieve sth new that ,they are not satisfy from their propertis and thier situation so they prefer to lose sth and then obtain sth better but i believe that families never lose their value.by the way i accept that there are some exception in each matter​

what about u, maral?.if u settle in this situation what will u do?

 

[maral55]

My dear Elaheh
thank you for your compliment i follow each topic because i have decided firmly to improve my English and speciailly my speaking
i hope others come here and we can be able to share our knowlegde
abour your question i havent got you correctily you mean about temporary marrajge
or you mean abour the relationship before marrajge?
well i say my own opinion
if i say about myself i prefer to choose my partner by myself but besides undoubtly i ask my parents idea about him as i always in all of my life asked about thier idea and i respect them very much
they always say thier idea but never make me to do as they say
if i want to have more realtions with him in order to get more familier agian i let my family know that and they dont have any problems about that i sure thier very open about these things​